So, I decided to share my childhood memories as a way of thanking my parents for our wonderful family holidays. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Even though money was tight, my parents always made an effort to take my sisters and I away when we were growing up. Mum would put away $5 or $10 a week throughout the year to make it happen. Dad worked at NZ Post and had access to the holiday houses, so we would usually end up somewhere on the north island like Taupo, Napier, or Rotorua. Later on, we started going to a holiday camp in Matamata. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
I am sure there was plenty of stress on these holidays \u2013 times where Mum and Dad were just trying to make it through the day. I know they sometimes wished we could do more \u201cactivities\u201d and tourist stuff. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
But when I talk with my sisters, the memories that stick out the most are not flashy and expensive but the things we did together. The things I remember the most include: <\/p>\n\n\n\n
- Stopping at the train bridge for mum\u2019s bacon and egg pie (The Mukohine Viaduct, just after Hunterville heading north),<\/li>
- Eating Minties or Fruit Bursts, Mum rationing out a bag with 1 every 30 mins,<\/li>
- Playing random games in the car to pass the time, <\/li>
- Swimming in the hot pool at Taupo and Matamata,<\/li>
- And walking through Craters of the Moon, going to Huka Falls, and the Awatere Dam<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n
I asked my sisters what they loved, Michelle said: <\/p>\n\n\n\n
- Playing bingo in Waiterere and getting, like, 20c for a line and 50c for bingo and going to the dairy to spend it on candy,<\/li>
- Taking turns cooking tea at the holiday home in Rotorua so Mum got a break,<\/li>
- Driving to Matamata and taking turns listening to each person\u2019s cassette tape of choice,<\/li>
- Swimming at the beach and body surfing with boogie boards,<\/li>
- Mums bacon and egg pies,<\/li>
- Traffic light popsicles, <\/li>
- Always getting a bag of Macintosh or Fruit Bursts to share, particularly the time Josh got a 5kg bag and we split them into flavors, <\/li>
- And piling bikes into the back of the Delica. <\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n
Bex said:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
- Mum\u2019s bacon and egg pie, <\/li>
- Staying at Aunty Robyn\u2019s on the NYE of the Millennium (Y2K anyone?),<\/li>
- The giant swing at Matamata, <\/li>
- Breaking down on the desert road,<\/li>
- And, above all else, singing in the van, especially The Sound of Music\u2019<\/em>s \u201cThe Hills are Alive\u201d \u2013 probably our most sung song. <\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n
And Mel said:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
- I have a very vivid memory of Josh falling asleep,waking with a start (from a falling dream), and slamming the window haha.<\/li>
- I remember the lilo at Matamata, the water slide, and bingo nights. <\/li>
- I remember it was my birthday when we were there, and there was a cyclone.<\/li>
- But mainly my favorites are just driving in the van with all of us and the weird crazy things we would do to keep entertained. <\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n
As I talk with my sisters, I feel like the key theme was that, as kids, we loved being together on these family holidays. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
As a parent, it\u2019s easy to get caught up in the stress of \u201cgetting through\u201d the experience. In the future, your child won\u2019t remember the journey and stress, but the small moments of time you spent together. Stop and enjoy these. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
As mentioned before: <\/p>\n\n\n\n
- The things we remember (or are consumed with) at the time and the things that last in your memory are totally different.
- What are you in the midst of right now that is stressing you out? Think about the last time you felt like this, and reflect on how you now feel about the situation. Reflect on the memories you\u2019re left with. <\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n
- The way you are experiencing an event and the way others (like your kids) are experiencing an event can be totally different.
- Stop and think about the perspective of the people you\u2019re with. What are they thinking, feeling, and remembering? <\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n
- And most of all, I am reminded that the time I have with my boys is short.
- In this post on the Wait But Why blog<\/a>, he puts into a visual graphic how much time he has left doing his favorite things. Right at the end, he talks about how much time he has left with his parents compared to how much he has already spent. As a parent of 2 young boys, I can\u2019t help but think about this in reverse. He also talks about how much time he now spends with his sisters vs how much he spent with them growing up. It\u2019s a long post, but worth the read. https:\/\/waitbutwhy.com\/2015\/12\/the-tail-end.html<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n
Maybe Jacob will remember the park or maybe not, but the 2-minute walk holding his hand made it all worth it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
What fond, yet simple memories, do you have of a past experience with someone you love?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Comment below, and I encourage you to send them a text or email to say what you remember and how much you appreciate it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
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- In this post on the Wait But Why blog<\/a>, he puts into a visual graphic how much time he has left doing his favorite things. Right at the end, he talks about how much time he has left with his parents compared to how much he has already spent. As a parent of 2 young boys, I can\u2019t help but think about this in reverse. He also talks about how much time he now spends with his sisters vs how much he spent with them growing up. It\u2019s a long post, but worth the read. https:\/\/waitbutwhy.com\/2015\/12\/the-tail-end.html<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n
- And most of all, I am reminded that the time I have with my boys is short.
- Stop and think about the perspective of the people you\u2019re with. What are they thinking, feeling, and remembering? <\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n
- The way you are experiencing an event and the way others (like your kids) are experiencing an event can be totally different.
- What are you in the midst of right now that is stressing you out? Think about the last time you felt like this, and reflect on how you now feel about the situation. Reflect on the memories you\u2019re left with. <\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n
- The things we remember (or are consumed with) at the time and the things that last in your memory are totally different.